Ok, so I'm a virgin.

The problem is that I am 30 years old and most women would expect me to be experienced at this time.

I have put my profile up on an internet dating site but I always dodge meeting these people IRL. I don't lie to make myself seem better than I am, and I have my picture up on my profile and all, yet I feel that the real me is always going to be a bit of a let down.

Ability to hold a conversation, and I think a lack of personality are my biggest problems. I think I also need to get a hobby just so I can say I have interests . . .

And then there's the fact that I haven't even kissed a girl, ever, so I would have to avoid that if things go intimate.

Just looking for a question to ask to tie this post off . . . How about:

"What do you think I can do to get around this problem, and how can I find dates in real life places so that people can assess me from the beginning?"