I think that the important part of not seeing eye to eye is accepting the way the other person sees even though it isn't what we see. I think that is the only way to get along with other people.

If we don't see eye to eye on most everything, then maybe it is best to remove ourselves from their lives because it causes very uncomfortable feelings & even anger. I find that if there only a few things that aren't eye to eye, it is much easier to accept.....the more things that fall into that catagory.....it isn't worth forcing the relationship.

I am finding that this is the cause for my ending my marriage also....It seems like it has evolved to not seeing eye to eye on anything....causing nothing but anxiety, depression, & anger. All feelings that I don't want to continue fighting, & fleeing into my room & depression isn't a solution either.

It is up to us how much we are willing to tolerate

Debbie