I dont know if this would be a helpful situation or not. Perhaps meeting someone for date to the movies? I figure that you cant talk THAT much especially at the movies and that would help at least get you to see the person face to face and get to know the feel of being near them that way you would have a better chance of going out again. And after the movie you definitely have something to talk about..the movie..thats always a good conversation. Another thing you could do is when you meet someone and they want to meet in person explain to them that you are quiet and not very good at conversation starters. Many women would appreciate your honesty and will be more willing to start the conversation and help out with silence gaps. Plus when you do meet someone in person then they wont feel like you arent interested they will know your just quiet. It doesnt matter if you dont have experience or not. You are a nice person and thats what matters. As long as you are considerate and ask them how they are. Hold the door open for them, pull the chair out for them. Another thing you can do is make list of questions that you can ask during the meeting. Then...also make answers so you can be prepared to answer the same questions. When you have conversations with people you are comfortable with take note on what you say or what they say..pick up some extra questions that you wouldnt have thought of otherwise. You dont have to have a hobby to have interests. Do you like movies? what movies do you like? Do you like taking walks, or excerising or playing video games? Are you into sports, or dance, or do you not prefer stuff like that but prefer books, art and museums. Alot of people feel they are boring and have no interests but i tend to catch them enjoying a certain type of movie, or have a favorite football team. Thats an interest. If you like football lets say...turn it into a question...Do you like football? If the answer is no...ask...What are your interests? If the answer is yes then What team do you like? Then you can joke together about what team is better and all that. I hope i helped..sorry for my ramble lol. Good luck! Im sure you will find its alot easier than you think and once you do go and meet someone you might have a great time and will think oh my goodness i cant believe i almost passed this up because i was nervous! You might have a situation that isnt all great...at least you met someone new and that will help you in your experience in meeting people.