BuscuitTin, I've had a life filled with many different boyfriends and 3 long term relationships. The man I eventually married (not until I was 32) was someone had only had sex with one other woman and not until he was 30 years old. They only had sex 3 times, so when we started dating and having sex, it really was like he was still a virgin at 35. I didn't look down on him at all for this or have any negative feelings about it. He's the kindest, most gentle person I know and him not having a lot of sexual partners just fits him...I know that sounds corny as hell. Sorry. I'm not one to care much about what a person chooses to do with his/her sex life, so I honestly didn't and haven't thought one bad thing about his lack of "experience". He is caring and willing to try anything (which is great!). And we are still working on his confidence (sexually). When he told me he was a "30 year old virgin", I thought it was the sweetest thing I'd ever heard. And remember this is the man I married. I have been engaged 2 times previously and backed out both other times. Don't despair, you will find your love, I promise. Don't worry about the virginity thing, that really doesn't have anything to do with finding the right person for you, because the right person won't care and will be willing to teach you and learn with you.

Good luck.