Yes- I need what I gave to her this morning. Someone to soothe me when I feel badly. She wasnt able to soothe herself at that moment. And we went to "Fairy Land" together. I wish someone could know me, know what I need and give it to me. That was what I wanted from dt. But she dismissed or minimized what I said. Like my mother did. It was painful then, and it reminds me of that pain when I give it to my daughter. There is a strong element of healing there, I know that, and I have known that for a long time, but the pain that is there for me and that I have to acknowledge is what I am just starting to see.