I found out yesterday, that my niece has had my brother cremated, because she couldn't afford a funeral/burial. She plans on scattering his remains on a clubhouse that is on the property where he lived (townhouse). A memorial service is planned on the 8th next month and then she is going to do this.

Am I the only one that thinks this is disrespectful of my brother's remains? A clubhouse??? There was no obit in the paper, no nothing. It's like he never existed. The wound is so open.

Mary Alice