In my bio-years I have bounced back and forth in presenting our selves as single and plural. Now that the majority of the town knows about it. I actually have some freedom. It hurts that some people out of fear and bigatry will not stop and learn about something that is diffrent from them before they hurt us. Yet here , I was accepted slowly. I may have came on to loud due to my lonelyness but even just being able to read the words the languge that we use allowed me the curage to do what I needed to do to heal. Just an hour ago I went to a store that I use to work at. I went up a am friend and out of the blue we just looked at him and said you know my younger parts,ya he said the only difference between me and you raising kids is that you have to change diapers and I don't. He looked at me and said what? that is the only difference between your children and my inner children. They wake up, they cry because they are afraid and I still have to comfort them when other people hurt their feelings. He asked if it was really that bad. I said only when outside people act as if we need no contact or love. You know he hugged me just as a friend for the first time. It was during these moments that I realized they never once heard me when we cried in pain but when I took the un-known and made it known that people started to see me diffrently. that is why we want to write a book so bad not to make fun of us but to help outsiders to see that we are diffrent yet still the same. My bio and short story is already being passed around. People are finely seeing that we still feel and yes remember but I am not the only one that lives this way they need to hear from us just like those that are going to the book store looking for answer needs the softer telling that they are not alone. We are survivers, we have learned to endure things that single mined people can not fathum. The only way to help those to grow is to bring our real lives to the front not come out but put information to help pave the way for those that are comming into being and for those that feel totally lost becuse they can not find the softer telling of the truth that you can be healed and still clam you parts.