Hi Lara,

Please try to reduce the stress and anxiety you're feeling about this. I think the most important thing to tell the psychologist about the voices is to first put them in context. I do think it's probably something he needs to know as it helps to form a better picture of who you are. He's not going to think you're crazy and I'm sure he's heard much much "worse" cases but if it's bothering you hearing them then whatever you can tell him will help form the basis of your treatment which is what he's being paid to do.

About your friend, that's tougher because even recent posters have said how they confided some things in a friend only to have that person break contact with them. It all depends on what kind of friend it is and how your relationship is now. Does she/he really need to know about it at this time or can it wait to see how your treatment goes? I think regarding friendships it's often times better to wait for a while and only tell them if they really need to know. Many people still just don't understand mental illness and are afraid of it and people who openly admit to being afflicted by them.

I'm sorry if my words are not much help but I do hope you can relieve some tension before the appointment. If you need me, PM me my friend.

Chris