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although not as bad as ur man, I to was the youngest and had 3 older sis's. My mother wasn't all controlling, just yelled a lot. But prehaps there is a small link there. Had I not gotten ahold of my mh i would be a lot worse. Don't ever accept the silent treatment, that is like a 5yr old. If you can't get him to man up find a way to "slap him in the face w/ reality" that will help, just boot his *** out & he will return a new person hopefully, don't let him back till he does. I'd say %90 odds here that he can be a true man if he finds his motavation.
either way screw messing w/ a guy that likes to act like a 5yr old grl. My gf would break something over my head to make me talk about if not toss my azz right the f@ck out the door! She's on this website, you should talk to her as back in the day we went through a lot & she dealt w/ more than she ever need to w/ not only me but her lazy ex that sounds like that guy made it to your front door. Is hid name Jag? lol, hope it helps.