If you had an old freind come into town...how would you like your boyfriend to respond to your catching up with him?

I have come to terms that relationships have nothing to do with ownership but everything to do with trust. I would personally have no problem with the situation you describe because I can trust myself...

Does that sound back words?

If I am comfortable in who and what I am...I can trust in that ,,,and in return I can feel comfortable with the people in my life doing things that the people in my life will do.

If someone was to do something wrong,,it will be something they do wrong and there will be little I could do about it. Generally if someone is shopping,,,the cupboards are bare or they are shopaholics...

IMHO.

Lenny