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Old Oct 29, 2009, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Lenny View Post
If you had an old freind come into town...how would you like your boyfriend to respond to your catching up with him?

I have come to terms that relationships have nothing to do with ownership but everything to do with trust. I would personally have no problem with the situation you describe because I can trust myself...

Does that sound back words?

If I am comfortable in who and what I am...I can trust in that ,,,and in return I can feel comfortable with the people in my life doing things that the people in my life will do.

If someone was to do something wrong,,it will be something they do wrong and there will be little I could do about it. Generally if someone is shopping,,,the cupboards are bare or they are shopaholics...

IMHO.

Lenny
That's true what your saying, but the fact is, she just found out about her. Now if my bf that I have been with just told me about this, than I'm going to think he's got something going on. Besides the fact, if it is just a friend, what harm is it for leogodess to go to dinner with them. Personally, I think that it's rude of the bf not to even invite his own gf in the first place. I would tend to think that he failed to inform her about this before, because maybe he has something to hide.
leogodess if it was me, and this is just my opinion, I would go on my gut feeling with this. If it doesn't feel right than it's not right.
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