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Old Oct 30, 2009, 09:42 AM
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(((((((((((((((Kaika))))))))))))))))))))

I'm sorry about the way your family has been treating you.
Is there any way to insist on some "morning rules" between you and your brother? Your responsibility is YOUR responsibility, and it sounds like he's turning it into HIS job to make you responsible for things. That's no good

As far as the meds, maybe it's ok to talk with T about it. Talking in NO WAY implies agreement that you will take him. It's actually an opportunity to say "I am scared of meds" "I don't want them" "they have bad side effects" and for him to share his views with you. I'd be scared SCARED to do this but I think it's a good thing to have a discussion about the pros and cons to it. You can still say no, and that way you can say you've considered all the information and still don't like the idea.

many hugs to you
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