I hope your little becomes safe and happy sooon manda - maybe she is just scared and traumatised - kindness and time may be the answer as it seems to be for many things
and ty Reg - yes we need to be supportive here and help one and other because thats what PC is all about - helping one and another on our healing journey and learning from others as we tread our own paths to healing .
I hope everyone is safe and well - please all take care of yourselves
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts 
its how many times you get back up! 
(Thanks to fenrir for my Picture 
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
by Patrick Overton, author and poet