Thank you very much John I appreciate your candor. I am running a little scared I guess of late. We have had so much going on and no time to ourselves to work things out. Maybe you can shed some light on this statement from my dearest. He says he doesn't want to think about what would make him happy. One of the reasons he gives is that he is afraid of hurting me or my feelings in some decision he may make.
He can be very unclear in his answers to me, even a very simple yes or no question will usually come back as a question or some long diatribe (?). One of those things that can be frustrating like now but that also endears him to me.
He also asks for my help when trying to figure things out. Sometimes it can be very uncomfortable for me to do so because then I feel like a critical nagging you know what. Even though he asked. I wish I could explain better, please ask away if you think you can help at all. Thank you for you kindness and all. Linda