You know...I was watching Dr. Phil the other day and he said something that makes a lot of sense here.

There are two kinds of fears. Founded and unfounded. Your "fear" of anonymous people reading what you post is totally founded! You've had your privacy violated by someone you knew. I would be suspicious, too.

That being said...I don't think anything any of us say is going to ease your mind. (I know it wouldn't ease mine) All I can suggest at this point is you consult with a professional about these fears/suspicions and see if you can work on them (assuming of course you haven't already done this).

Hope that helps.