I just want to add that something I've "learned" is that a man who talks and talks about himself....Well, I used to excuse that and say, "Well, maybe he was just nervous, and wanting to impress....." NOT!!! I even sensed impatience when I interjected anything into the conversation, so YES, I've learned to discern. Also, I learned that the man just got divorced last WEEK!
So, I had to listen about his wife, 23 years younger, etc. I'm too tired for it!
Seeker