I can understand you being anxious about this, but you need to take it one step at a time. The virgin thing really wouldn't be a big deal to most women, and if it is a big deal to someone I don't think it would be the type of woman you would be interested in anyway.

Start with a date, as mentioned above, something that may not involve all that much direct communication at first. Dinner and a movie perhaps, but do the movie first, that way you can break the ice with some small chatter here and there and feel out your comfortability level with her.

Be honest, that is the number one priority in any situation, especially this one. Just tell her you haven't been in many relationships, be it because you've been focused on your career, or have just been a bit nervous. Don't put on a show for her that isn't you, just be yourself and if she appreciates you for that then run with it. If not, then she's probably not your type anyway and keep your head up because there's nothing to feel bad about anyway.

If everything goes well and you feel like you want to make a move, make a small move. A kiss on the hand or the cheek is just as effective as a kiss on the lips, sometimes even moreso. Just try to keep any sort of sexual relations out of your head, you'll wind up intimidating yourself when in reality it probably wouldn't have happened right away even if you'd been with 50 women before her. Don't feel like you NEED to lose your virginity, that is unneeded pressure put on you. Take things at your own pace, put yourself out there, and see what happens.

Hope you find what you're looking for