This subject has a who slew of topics itself. See i think older men today are thinking women need them. While im from the 80s generation which sadly doesnt say much about me. Ive learned today women dont need a man they need some company.

Older men today seem to think this is the 40's (no offense to anyone from that time) where it was a womens job was the kitchen, today men and womens alike do laundry and clean and wash dishes (that is if their not lazy lol) .. so saying that a woman needs a man just isnt there anymore. Men and women today have been taught that if things arnt 100% we give up, breakup, divorce, have affairs and what have you.

My issue is today is the big 3 letter word sex. I love my wife and im very attracted to her, when women walk by and guys eyes are usually looking at them .. well i dont need to my wife has the features that keep my eyes on her. Everything is perfect cept for one thing .. sex.

So what does this have to do with dating .. well ill show you .. older men still want sex and want to FEEL like they are needed in a physical way. Woman on the other hand want to be needed in a Mental way. Sure its nice to have a guy fix the broken shelf or change the oil in the car, but in case men havent notice today women can do these things and some of them like to .. us men try to brighten ourselves with women today so we can feel special .. however its a turn off to women.

Women today dont need men, and using that as a stratgy is pointless, its the same with sex, People today would rather have a sex partner and only show up once in a while and not carry all the bags that go with it. This like many confuses me, half of the world is growing up with dad seeing the kids when he wants while he lives elsewhere with someone else and her kids. Then we have the ones who still believe in marriage and parenting together.

So when your young or old when it comes to a simple date. Theres alot to think about .. when all the date is a simple going out to eat. You have sex issues, do people need you, i mean what is the date for. All i can say is dating at a older age is no different then when i was a teen and for one im glad im married cause going through all that again i would just rather be single .. ohh wait isnt that the point