Thanks Artist ! I appreciate your kind words
I would consider counseling, heck we even kind of did it though that was not what they were calling it for insurance sake. That is the problem now, my medicaid would not cover marriage counseling and he has no insurance. He does not make near enough money for us to really even consider this as an option at this time.
Also we have so much else going on (no I am not making excuses) he works 1 50 miles away so I don't see him except on weekends right now. We moved back to Wisconsin a few months ago and have been living with his aunt and he finally found a job in his field that offered more than minimum wage, tho not much more. anyhow that makes talking so much more difficult, and then we try to cram it in on the weekend. Is not working very well.
I cry all week then we argue on weekend, I don't know how much longer it will be till we have our own place I am hoping no more than a month more.
So there is all this extra stress also to deal with.
Actually his aunt is not bad but her grandkids are here and they are driving me CRAZY like right now he is trying to look over my shoulder to see what I am doing. Geez how parents are raising there kids nowadays leaves a lot to be desired in some cases.
Anyhow sorry for the long whine session here thanks for caring enought to write Linda