I'm thinking more about this... perhaps part of my viewpoint comes from "always" winning??? Not... but if it was something non physical... I was really, really good... and it did nothing "for" me ...but made others not like me so much? I did physical things in school too, played goalie in soccer, guard in basketball, tournament tennis.. I did fine, but couldn't hold a candle to my brothers and sisters... so my competition was -eh?- negated?