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Old Jul 20, 2005, 09:02 PM
friedgreymatter friedgreymatter is offline
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I don't know what is considered healthy, but I'm certain that if you can get along with one person, then you are capable of getting along with others, too.

Have you been drawn to people who encouraged you to take part in illegal activities? Perhaps you can ask the T as to how one would avoid such people.

Is the relationship with the one person healthy? If not, then there's a problem.

I think what's most important is whether or not someone can have a healthy relationship with another person, and it doesn't really matter how many one is social with.

This should be a discussion between you and your T, not a battle. Let's see what she says about this after she had time to think over your views on the matter. I think it will take more time to come to some understanding.

You are very fortunate to have a gf whom you get along with, Shaymus. I wouldn't want the stress of HAVING to socialize with more people to cause any problems with what already exists between you two. No need to rush into anything. Just give what the T said a chance. Think it over. I'm glad you posted about it here.

-Ray