I am just getting into this divorce thing after 30 years of stress & arguments & so many other things that I just don't want to live with any more. I am so looking forward to my freedom & just wanting to be on my ranch property with my dogs & horses & any other animals I can adopt. I have absolutely to desire to play the dating game at all. I just have no desire go anywhere in that direction. I have no interest in making anyone feel needed or feeding anyones ego.

Honestly, I can't imagine ever going out with anyone. I'm not sure how strange I am about this, but I am so exhausted from trying to make a relationship work that I don't have any desire to come close to even a date.

The ego & concept that his intelligence level is so high he is to good for things, never maturing from the age of high school....(we married when he graduated from college & I still had a couple of years to go)....not having my values respected...too many issues to even go into. It has completely turned me off of anyone. At this point in time, I can't imaging ever being able to have even a dating relationship with anyone....just don't think it could ever happen. It seems like you all have gone through this already & I am just starting at the age of 52. It is amazing because when I was in college working toward my BS, I swore I would never get married & seriously didn't want to have a family....guess I am ending up fulfilling my college desire in the long run....except I do have a 27 year old daughter with him.

It sounds like you all have gotten through this stage....guess it may be possible in the long run....but just cant imagine it now. I appreciate reading what you all are going through to give me a glimpse of my possible future.

Debbie