So I am a new member and the timing could not be any better. I feel as though everything is happening at once, but one thing at a time. So I guess the first thing is that my boyfriend, who I am in love with and want to marry, just told me last night that his mom has HIV, and my first reaction was do you have it??? Well, in turn this turned into a huge argument because he felt that I don't trust him because if I did than I never would have asked that question. We argued for awhile and he said that I was nagging him to tell me what was bothering him, and that was why he didn't want to tell me because he knew I would freak out. I did, but I love him...however I feel like I may have lost him...