well i did just that and called him this morning (he did spend the night at my place)...i told him that i am there for him and my reaction was solely based on being surprsied because that was the furthest thing from my mind...i think that the hardest thing is him feeling as though he can't trust me and he can...i don't want him to deal with things alone...i am sitting at work crying because i can't lose him...the whole story in a nutshell is that we dated 3 years ago and broke up...i haven't spoken to him since...i wrote him a letter with the address i had for him and left my number...he then called me a few days later and said that he hasn't lived in that address for 3 years, but he was going to look for a place for his grandmother...he looked down and saw the letter...we are together because of fate...after we hung up this morning it "seemed" like everything was better, but i still feel like he thinks he cant trust/open up to me...plus i am going thru so much more right now that i am an emotional wreck...