Hi Sept
Actually this has been an ongoing issue for a few years. He even tried counseling and we even had a few sessions together. They never got anywhere unfortunately. My darling man has such an issue of not speaking the truth, he will talk and talk but never answer your question. The most major example he always gave to me from his sessions was that Doc had asked him what he wanted from life and how he sees himself in a few years? Everything he said had to do with me and how I might be doing healthwise, like he said he saw himself taking care of me. It was not enough for the counselor as he saw the avoidance even then, so he kept asking him the same question with always the same result. My husband as good as he is a man is not the best communicator. Whcih is what is happening now so that nothing is being taken care of really. He wont say what he wants so I cant give him any kind of help. I cant encurage what I dont know you know what I mean? I have lots of faith and I tell him all the time but I need some communication from him. He wants it all from me don't I have the so called right to expect the same from him. We cant share a life together if he won't open up to me. sorry didnt mean to go on here. Thanks for answering my post. Linda