You need to look at what it is that is bothering you....what is triggering you into those feelings. As Vickie says, it may be from your past & how you are feeling about the marriage, not necessarily your husband.

I know in my case, I didn't want to get married to my husband in the first place....knew that, but was assured that he would grow up....so everytime I encountered the things that aggrivated me about him, I would strike out.....stuck it out 33 years before leaving.

It could be that you are afraid of him leaving & that you are afraid of being hurt so you are pushing him away before he can do that.

There are any number of reasons why you might be going this. It might be worthwhile getting a marriage counselor & working on your issues first so you understand ourself....from there, you can work on th marriage if necessary.

Wishing you the best. There is nothing better than having a good marriage & someone who loves you & who you love......so it's not something to just toss off & throw away. You really need to know yourself before getting married.....but that doesn't happen most times, so we have to learn while being married & try to make it all work together.

Hope you figure out your feelings & can sort through them so you can enjoy a wonderful marriage.

Best wishes,
Debbie