Let me ask this lets say that he makes a lot more then you would you expect him to give you a better life style? Live in a better home, take vacations? Or would you content living on your income and he living on his? How do you keep things equal? What if you made far more then he did? Would you pay for the extras like a bigger nicer home? vacations? I recently read that in about 35% of dual income families the woman now out earns her husband. What is fair in this new age of changing relationships?