(((((((((((((jexa)))))))))))

I love the e-mail that you sent to your T. You took charge, told her that you want to do them, but let her know what you need in order to be able to accomplish that. That is really good work

I know you feel frustrated right now...I have been there, believe me...but I have learned that my healing is worth fighting for. And so is yours. Don't run away...stay, and talk and talk and talk until you have this resolved with T and you are ready to move forward. From what you wrote it sounds like you and T like each other very much. You'll get to the other side of this.

T and I had a rupture that lasted all summer, and now we can look back at it and see how that moved our relationship and my healing forward. T says "it happened the way it had to happen". It was horrible at the time, but it was so worth fighting through to the other side of it.

Sending lots of to you!