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Originally Posted by crystalrose
I'm not on contraception at all. Just get the guy to use a condom. I know thats wrong but. . . I also know that its not a miscarriage this time.
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It's great that it isn't a miscarriage. Sorry that happened to you before.
As for it being wrong to only use condoms for bc, I disagree. It's not wrong to use condoms and no chemical birth control. Condoms are important to use when you might be taking a change of getting an STD, which chemical BC will not prevent. Also, while using a condom and chemical bc (shot, pill, etc.) does decrease pregnancy risk even more than one of them alone, bc pills, bc shots, and things such as IUD's, carry risks that condoms do not, and you have to weigh whether the benefits are worth the risks to you, personally. If they aren't, then not using it in addition to your condom is not "wrong".
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