I went to one after my hospital admission - it took a few weeks but I did start appreciating it. After a couple of months the staff stepped back from it but we continued to meet for a coffee once a week. I met some good people who I wouldn't have otherwise met.
However, I tried one here and it just wasn't for me. There were a couple of very vocal members who I didn't take to, and I felt anxious about speaking as my accent instantly defines me as different. I really didn't feel comfortable - I went twice and thought that was enough to be able to make a decision. I had hoped I would have enjoyed it as it would have given me a space to talk about things properly rather than pretending that everything's great all the time.
Otherwise, yes, I feel that online forums are an important part of my support group.
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