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Originally Posted by Sannah
Hi Sunny, do you think that this friend and your mom are self-centered? Might it be that you used to be codependent and now you are changing and the anxiety comes because when you interact with these people all of these issues come up for you to deal with them?
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I am not sure what you mean - self-centered? or co-dependent? I am not real familiar with these terms ..... however ...
When I think of self centered I guess it may mean somone who thinks of only themselves....
I dont think my mom fits into this category, she has always tried to help everybody and usually puts herself last
She has control issues and I think this is more of the issue, she wants to know everything even when its not hers to know, ....no boudaries she just does what she sees as right.....
I do think that my friend thinks her opinion is the only one that counts and its her way or no way...no compromising....she is a hard person and I think she has depended on me ... only I am just realizing it and now I know and understand that I dont need to be the pillar for her .....it is to heavy for me......
I dont think I have depended on either of them ...actually I KNOW I have not been able to depend on either of them MOST OF THE TIME....
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