D. and I got married this fall.

but he is so jealous he won't let me freely have my best friend and me together anymore.

I have explained to him over and over again that just because Ani is a man doesn't mean we're "like that"!

Before our wedding, during our courtship, D. was very supportive about my friendship with Ani. In fact, we were a "3 Muskateers" team! We always hung out together--we called ourselves the "ABC Club"---Ani, Carol and Dane!

now, he can't stand me being around Ani.

I thought he trusted me.

I thought I could trust him to be mature and understanding.

I understand jealousy, but I can't stand the hateful vibes my husband sends me.

So we decided to get a divorce!

Oh, g*d.

B.