i really feel what your going through but you have to trust that you not failing. I think this is just the consequence of dealing with someone who is going through a hard time. You know something I think the best thing to do is just to tell him that your going to be there and just maybe step aside for a little bit. Don't go away cuz that will make him feel alone but just step aside and do something else on the side so that he doesn't feel like he is a huge burden, show him that he's part of your life but he's not depressing your life.. i don't know if what i'm saying is coming across the way i mean it but look, with my friend he tries to not tell me things b/c after he would tell me i would be so hurt for him and it would worry me alottt even at times when he goes on to something else i would still feel bad about the thing he told me about. i guess he felt like he was making me depressed and he didn't want that and i finally realized that i needed to stop doing that or atleast stop showing him. i mean at the time i try to make sure he knows i'm there but then just try not ponder about that subject for a long time. you know one time he was telling me about something then he stops in the middle and goes "never mind don't worry it's nothing" and when i asked him y he said that he's like cuz i know u, u'll think about it too much and wont sleep. he tells me something and i wanted to tell you, he said that both of us can't be feeling the same way one of us has to be strong so that we can keep form falling. i guess what i'm trying to say is that he's going to feel like he's burden but u have to get him to understand that you feeling for him doesn't mean that he is and that it's not a one person thing instead your kind of like a team.

I really know it's hard but try not to be so sad so that u can help him better. i really feel what u'r going through and i know it's tough but keep strong for him. heres a hug to hopefully cheer u up alittle