Sannah - thanks
This sound like it fits .... Invades my boundaries, my space, my person, my bubble....YES YES .....I feel weak or helpless when they are trying to push their agenda onto me....smothered .... I get panicky from it and start to get really aggitated ....
These days I just avoid because I dont know how to confront without getting aggitated .....I want to someday just say ...."no thanks and this is why" ....or, "hey this is my opinion and I am not going to change it so stop pshing" ... or maybe just say "I dont want to be around you because ____ this is how I am feeling and you P*** me off!"
Someday! LOL!
Thank you for responding I apprecaite you taking the time ... hope you are well and having a good week .... sunny
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Originally Posted by Sannah
So your mom might trigger you because she invades your boundaries (and decreases your empowerment) and your friend might trigger you because she also invades your boundaries and wants you to take care of her? You feel you don't have choices around them and that they will impose their will on you???
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