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Originally Posted by ECHOES
I like this description of BPD because it is more than just a list, and I suppose because I relate to it very much. Learning more about BPD has helped me slow down the processes and find words for what is going on.
When this diagnosis is offered, it isn't always offered as an explanation for how we relate to ourselves and others and the intense emotions that result.
It is a complex way of being, as one thing affects another..affects another. It is no wonder we often feel overwhelmed.
I feel so fortunate to have a psychotherapist who understands, accepts, and is kind and patient.
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As I have gotten to know my illness, I so whole-heartedly agree with why you like this description of BPD.
Upon first learning of this illness, it made me feel even more monstrous than what I had already been feeling.
For me, understanding the diagnosis in a more empathetic way rather than in such a cold and calculating perameter of set behaviours helps me to accept myself as not so monstrous.
The
perceptions we have of ourselves: of life, love, fear, reality...
(Ummm, should have just said: "I agree!")