Safe hugs to you both!!! Yes, that anger part is a real bear. I have DID and my anger all resides with one alter who stays locked in a basement - to protect both others from us and us from others. But when anger is triggered, wow. I can usually manage to stay co-conscious but sometimes not. I am SHOCKED by what I watch from myself as I explode! It is like I am in the movie Excorcist or something!!!!

Anyway, safe hugs to you. You are NOT alone in this.