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Originally Posted by dreamseeker9
Oh, sw. That sounds so painful.  I agree that you shouldn't look at this as you doing something wrong, and it does sound like you an T will move past this rupture. T's are indeed human, and your T was definitely showing you her hurt human side. But it's good to express your feelings to others and then learn to work through that conflict. I can appreciate your T asking you to do it in session, though, and not through email. I have to say that this makes me glad that my T doesn't accept email, as I might be tempted and send something I'd later regret, or I'd completely obsess as I waited for T to respond.
It will get better!!! You took the first step, it will get easier. |
( Dream seeker)
Thanks for advice. I really hope T and I can move on from this. It's just so disheartening the way things have happened. I apologized for the way the email was sent and i regret that i did it in that way. However, the more I re-read my email I don't apologize for what I said..entirely. I think there are some legitimate issues that need to be addressed and feelings that need to be expressed. Oh i so know Dreamseeker, I'm almost happy that you don't have the email option. Not an effective form of communication at all hah.