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Originally Posted by sunrise
I am very conflict avoidant, so there is a part of me that feels any conflict with the therapist (or others in my life) could have dire consequences (talking about the ruptures that "don't have to happen"). Just because there is a disagreement doesn't mean it is the end of the world--that sounds so simple, but it has not been something I have truly felt or understood. Still working on it...
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yeah - having just been through my own VERY PAINFUL, thankfully short, rupture, this was poignant for me as well. I too am conflict avoidant - and trying to work on it. It scares the you-know-what out of me.
But it is "mine" to work on. Now, because of this rupture (T didn't even understand the word - *I* had to explain it!) my homework is to look at my relationships with EVERYBODY around me. yaaaaaaaaaaaaaay.
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