I know my hubby has been through a lot, he was the one who told us to go enjoy ourselves .... we saw a lot of friends we haven't seen in ages. My son was home with my husband . It was just the way he spoke to me, nasty and condescending you know? I know he's feeling fragile still and I'm doing my very best. My son was here to cook for him and he can cook for himself anyway .... as he did .... it just threw me when I came home and he pounced on me is all .... both me and Dani were upset.

I seriously wasn't going to go, and he told us to ....

Thanks for the hugs. Ophelia xx

He isn't depressed Muffy, we've talked. He is uncomfortable because he is still full of gas from the op. I did ask him about feeling depressed and he says he's just sick of feeling bloated which is understandable ... when people jump on me like he did with anger it does make me panic, I'm fine now, it just took me and my daughter by surprise .... We were both in the wrong I guess ... it was too soon to go out and leave him. K xx (((((((muffy)))))