I am really proud of you for sticking to your guns. So many girls just give in so that they can keep the guy and regret it immediately after. I know it sucks that you lost someone that you cared about over this. However, if he is immature enough to break up with you for not having sex with him, then he is probably too immature to even be having sex.

When you find the right guy, you be the one to decide if you want to have sex. Boys are always dtf but the boy that is willing to wait for you and let you decide when the time is right might actually be the one you want to have sex with.

My mom has a saying that she has told me and my friends for as long as I can remember. "The guy must always love the girl a little bit more." I have found this to be true in so many examples. A little extra love from the boy balances out the girl's emotions.

Good luck with finding someone that actually deserves you!