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Old Nov 12, 2009, 10:12 AM
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lynn P. lynn P. is offline
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I agree with all the other posters that you're right in waiting and not selfish in doing so. She only proposed marriage a few months ago, so she's rushing it too much. Both people need to agree when is the best time to marry and not where one partner is pressuring the other. You're absolutely right is wanting to stabalize your mental health issues first - this will benifit both of you. Stand your ground and don't let her pressure you. Good luck to both of you.
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