Thanks for the input. Yea, i know i'm certainly not paying for any fun things until he gets a job, but the thing is I usually didn't. He usually offers to take me out and pay with the money he gets from his parents (which i don't think is right to do so i usually refuse to go with him). He admitted to me yesterday that he wasn't really looking for a job cuz he didn't have to since he had enough money. So that basically tells me that he doesn't consider my feelings. He just said to stop nagging him when I told him that he should have been looking for jobs sooner. Then i really got upset with him when he told me to stop treating him like he's an Idiot. I don't feel that i treat him that way. It really hurts that he thinks that way about me. If i don't try to help him look for jobs then he'll totally brush it off. He isn't being an Idiot, but he needs a push in order for things to get done apparently.

I don't know if i can really be in this anymore if he won't consider my feelings too. We get into fights about stupid stuff like every 2 days or so and it's really dragging me down. We don't speak to each other for an entire day when he have a fight which really isn't good. We aren't currently speaking to each other. I don't want to speak to him unless he wants to resolve the issues here. He never acts like he wants to talk about the issues. He usually just acts like it never happened after we fight. That isn't helping me at all. It's making me resent him more and more.