Thanks. Yes, i think i need to suggest for him to see a therapist if he's having a tough time. I asked if he was depressed yesterday and he told me he wasn't though. It just seems like he doesn't think it's a big issue for him to get a job. He is putting it off cuz he is doing okay right now with money. He told me before he moved that he would start looking for a job right away though (like within 1-2 weeks). I don't want to do anything drastic and just call it quits without really trying, but i do think i need to talk to him about my expectations. Also, he doesn't really know anyone in the area and he moved a far distance to be with me so i really don't want to kick him out. I am afraid that i might be stuck in this if things don't work out in the long run.