I didn't mean to make light of your dreams. They take a long time to dissappate. I found over the years that in my dreams I started confronting those had hurt me.......... it took years to get to that point...
It was really wild though.....
Being 49 and going much therapy - I have tremendous step just through my dream alone.
My old therapist said we can control our dreams.
I guess that might be so - maybe that's why I was making baby steps in each trip to end being the victim