Could you be more specific about exactly who says caring things on the outside..yet inside has hypocrisy? I have found this too...sometimes it is my illness that makes me ditrustful...sometimes, the general public IS hypocritical..just saying these things to say the 'right' thing w/o meaning it.....

This hurts me, too..

But I do not have close family so tend to confide in many from my church..(((church))

May be different for you...is this family that is hypocritical?