Thanks guys. I fully agree with what you said, A_Long_Ways. This isn't even really about money. The issue at hand is the fact that he is slacking so much and shrugging it off like it's just a little thing. It gives me very little hope that we'll be able to have a good future together. He needs to get started in building his resume at least.

Also, I know he drinks everyday, but he has told me that he isn't dependent on alcohol and I know he doesn't drink really early in the day. He used to see a therapist in Wyoming once a week, but he said he was doing a lot better for awhile and just went to his therapist cuz he enjoyed talking to him so he said he didn't need to find another therapist around here.

I work at the Red Cross actually and so i know about volunteer opportunities. I have mentioned volunteering to him and he didn't seem interested in it. He doesn't see what the point is if he's not getting paid for it.