Deli, you always have control. Neither Austin-T nor anyone esle can make you move but yourself or the people you're living with right now. Remember that. T's aren't supposed to run our lives and they don't unless they try and we let them. I see no harm in meeting with people. As far as your conditions about moving out scenarios, how restrictive are you being? Are you sabotaging your efforts by being so restrictive that it prevents you from moving out? On the sui thing, don't know what to say. Sounds very odd for a T and bothersome. Where's pdoc these days?