Did you ask your pdoc why she wanted to know? If I didn't see a good reason for a question (and they were unable to explain themselves adequately), then I might not answer. Or if I did not want to share due to privacy or lack of trust, then I also would not. But it has never really come up for me, so it hasn't been an issue. I think once my T asked me if I felt shame in the context of some of my H's extracurricular sexual behaviors, but that has been it. My T or PNP knowing my specific sexual behaviors is not relevant to the issues I am working on in therapy.

Just remember, you do not need to answer every question they ask.