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Old Nov 13, 2009, 11:41 PM
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But I don't have a problem discussing this sort of thing. I do think I would be uncomfortable at first, but not unwilling. How would you even refer to sexual acts or body parts when discussing lovers or masturbation? Do you reference words in the same manner as you would a boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse - or would you use clinical terms? Funny to think about, but now I'm wondering. How graphic would/should the words you choose be?
I suppose if I were talking about CSA, I'd use the more clinical terms.
I don't know about references to lovers or masturbation though! gravvy?
I was thinking about this too :P I'm quite young and sometimes I feel embarrassed using the clinical terms over more casual terms because I don't feel "adult enough". But I know it's ok to speak casually about it.... I don't swear in therapy but I absolutely love it when T says f***! Dunno why... haha. But anyway it's a nice reminder that I don't have to edit/censor my language.