This is really powerful, Exotic. It sounds like an amazing step for you (or anyone!) to leave a message like that for ex-t). Im surprised he didnt apologize at all- sounds like he could use a dose of humility himself.
Can I ask you for a summary of what happened with him? (If its not too painful to re-tell). If I read it before and it didnt stick on a braincell, Im sorry....maybe I knew the story, but didnt realze it was you?
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he really hurt me. But because of my new insights with EMDR, I see that he was scared and reacted like he did because of that. He really needed supervision or a T himself, but I think T's who have been practicing as long as he did, feel too proud to do that.
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Sounds like the feelings I have had about desk-t.....My feeling is that when they (dt and your ex-t, not all t's!) have been practicing for a long time either they are just set in their ways and are unable to be flexible, or are just unable to see another point of view.